Many men can develop a nondual teachers interest in their dance teacher. They then of course have thoughts about seducing her. This is not uncommon or unsurprising. If you spend that much time with a woman and get that close to her, then you will of course start to think about her in this way. Chances are your dance teacher is very attractive too. Most dance instructors are attractive: both physically and personality wise. Dance is a good form of exercise (especially if you do it as a job) so your dance teacher likely has a very good body. Most people interested in dance also have a very good sense of presentation and style, so she probably also does her makeup well and dresses well. This would simply add more to how attractive she is.
But what might be even more attractive is her personality. Because dance exudes a lot of sexuality and is very traditional with regards to gender roles your dance teacher will likely have a very engaging and attractive personality. Put all of this together and it is small wonder that you are attracted to her. She is also going to be nice to you, because you are a customer, and this will make you feel that you have a chance. This combination of high attraction and a feeling of potential will make you give serious thought to the possibility of seducing your dance teacher.
Understanding the situation
So you are now at a place where you want to know how to seduce your dance teacher. Before I talk about this some more I want to review the situation. You probably already sense that this is different from other situations where you have wanted to pick up a woman. This is probably why you’ve ended up reading this article. So what issues are there unique to picking up your dance teacher?
You’re not the only student she has. In your mind your dance teacher is a unique person. You see her once or twice a week. You are one of many students she sees in a week. Just think about how many other students she could see in a week. You will then realise that you probably do not ‘pop’ in her head as much as she does yours. So don’t make the assumption that the feelings are likely to be mutual.
You are not likely to be the first student try to pick her up. This carries over from the previous point. Your teacher is probably sensitive to this and can tell if you’re interested. She will therefore likely know before you say anything to her. This means she has possibly already prepared to counter your advances; this is the safe option for her. This will make such a seduction more challenging than others.
There will be implications if you try and fail. I know two dance teachers who have had to ask their students to move to a different teacher after the advances were rejected. However, in both cases it was not the first time that the student tried. Both women had enough experience to be able to continue on. But just think about what might happen if you do try. You need to be prepared for this.
Are there not other women at your dance school? You possibly get a bit too captivated by your teacher to realise that there are other women at your dance school. You are probably more likely to meet with success if you consider other women in the dance school. What’s more, your dance teacher is probably an excellent source if information and advice. You need no wing man when you have a dance teacher who can use the dance teacher network to find out about any other woman in the class. You have probably realised that teachers talk about the students to each other. Not only that, but they typically like it when students get together. That means you can expect some good advice about other female dance students from your teacher.
